So I'm not closing the site down...and here is a new post! Maybe yall can figure this one out. So in light of some recent events my Justin's mother has decided she doesn't like me anymore. Here are the recent events: Friday/Saturday November 28/29, 2008: (Friday night-3 am Saturday morning) Justin and I go out to a party with a bunch of our friends from our car night. Justin gets shmammered, I DD. We get back to the house around 230am and I take the case Justin brought home and put it in the fridge while he goes to the bathroom. I tell him to go get ready for bed (*I mean telling him how to undress he was so gone ha ha*) while I went to the bathroom. I get out and see that Justin's room is still dark and I hear him laughing in Jared's room. I walk in there to see Justin hanging on the post of the bunk bed and 2 girls standing in front of Jared's bed and Jared laughing at Justin. Jared and have been together for a year now Laura for a year (me and Justin too). The 2 girls are Jill and Sam. They hate Laura and I because Sam wants to fuck Jared and fight Laura. So after finally getting Justin to bed, I text Laura to let her know that these girls are in Jared's room in the middle of the night. After that I watched some of a movie and fell asleep. Saturday Novemeber 29, 2008: (day time) Laura texts me and asks me what happened. I call and tell her my side. She calls Jared then texts me and says that the girls spent the night on the top bunk of Jared's bed, where his friend Randy (whos family moved out of state so he lives with Justin and Jared sometimes) normally sleeps. I swore to Laura that I thought they had left. I told her everything I knew and hung up. Justin and I decided we wanted spaghetti for breakfast but then realized that we would have to clean up the kitchen in order to do so. So Justin started the dishes and I recieved a text from Jared telling me that I needed to stay the hell out of his relationship and mind my own fucking buisness. I stepped outside with the dogs and called Laura to tell her. I enlightened her to everything I knew once more to make sure she had everything and then hung up. Minutes later Jared texts me once again, blaming me for ruining his relationship...(Laura had just called him and told him that she couldn't trust him anymore due to the fact that he had initially lied ot her about the girls but they are not broken up)...so I texted him saying that it was his fault for not telling Laura and that if it had been the other way around I would have wanted Laura to do the same thing and that he screwed up his relationship, not me. I come inside to hear Jared yelling and scream and hitting stuff in his room. They I hear him tell Justin to "get your bitch under control before I do". Justin charges back into Jared's room where the proceed to grapple until Justin has Jared under control and is about to hit him...he gets up and walks away. We go back into the kitchen and I call Laura while Justin continues to work on the dishes when Jared comes charging through the kitchen and out the back door and tells Justin he needs to "put your bitch on shorter leash". Justin loses it and goes after him telling Jared the same things I did (his fault not mine fucked it up himself) and that he needs to learn to respect people, me and Laura included and that if he didn't stop throwing out insults he was going to get his ass beat. Jared stepped into Justin's face screaming for him to hit him. I tried my best to pull Justin back but he's a big guy. He finally did step away and we left the house for a while. Now their mom is saying that my texting Laura was the wrong thing to do. She already had me pissed off since a couple weeks ago I found out that she has been calling me ugly and saying that her son can do better than me behind my back and then acting nice to my face and asking me for my help around the house! She told Justin last night that there will be no more over night female company...but she didn't tell Jared and Laura this and apparently Laura is still welcome to stay at the house. I also found out last night that yesturday at some point during the day Laura Randy Jared and my boyfriends mom were all sitting around talking and Laura asked what she was planning on getting me for Christmas and her response? "Oh, I'm going to get her a leash." I am beyond livid. This is a full grown woman acting as if she is a jealous little 8th grade cheerleader! I can't smack her like I would love to do....so what the hell do I do? I have done nothing wrong. I have done nothing but be nice to this woman. I threw her husband a birthday party when she was out shopping with her friends. I have cleaned her house...top to bottom countless times. I have bought food for that house, cooked dinner for them all. I have been everything I possibly can be and she has done nothing but talk trash about me!! What the eff do I do? |